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Wandering Wednesday: Your Children Want YOU!

Good, devoted mothers get on Pinterest . . . and blogs . . . and Facebook . . . and Twitter . . . and then they flip through parenting magazines and TV channels (full of advertisements and media hype) . . . and they’re convinced they’re not enough.

 They’re convinced that everyone else has magnetic, alphabetized spice containers,

 and unless their garden parties are thematically accessorized with butterfly lanterns,

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                                       Photo source: Pinterest, http://tinyurl.com/6lsuurc

and  they’re wearing the latest fashions (in a size two, of course), there’s no point in even showing up for the day.

Last Saturday, this happened to me.

I came home from a lovely day out with my extended family and had serious intentions to spend the evening dyeing Easter eggs and making bunny buns.

You child want you pic

By the time I got everyone settled and fed, however, I was so tired that I just laid on the couch and dozed while my children played and got themselves to bed.

Around 8:30, when I finally had the energy to sit up, I decided to try out Pinterest for a few minutes until my husband got home. There it was–1,000 reasons why I’m failing at all things domestic.

I don’t make grilled cheese sandwiches look like ice cream.

I don’t even have seasonal throw pillows on my couches or live plants anywhere in the house.

Is it really so hard? Can’t I pull myself together and wrap some candles in green foliage and bring happiness to our decor with bright fabrics and hand-crafted photo frames?

As I was trying to calm my frenzied state of mind, my husband came home and held me tight. We talked about our day, and he told me how much he loves me and that he wants our boys to marry someone like me. I fell asleep snuggled under his arm.

The following morning, our children enthusiastically bounded into our bedroom and tucked themselves into our covers. My four-year-old gave me an arm massage, and we all sat there together–joking, laughing, planning the day ahead, and enjoying that special feeling of family. Reflecting on the discouragement I’d felt the night before, I realized that my family doesn’t care about what I see on Pinterest. They care about me.

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April Perry says -

I don't know how to cook or host a dinner party. I'm not a great photographer, and I can't apply make-up, decorate a room, or buy a purse without help from my friends. My four-year-old says I "can't drive," and I can't sew or use a glue gun without getting hurt. But I DO know how to recognize and cherish the power of a family, visit my blog  at The Power of a Family where I share and learn from others who know that family is central to why we're here.


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